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Written by Erika Castiglione


Every year I put together an end of the year round up of resources that were helpful to me and open it up to other staff members who want to contribute. I always find some good recommendations and I hope you find something that encourages you in your walk with God!


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Music / Albums:


Podcasts:


Books


Devotional Tools / Apps

  • Lectio 365  a free daily prayer app with devotions featuring guided prayer and scripture meditations for morning, afternoon, and night. (Grace, James & Lawrence)


Movies

Written by Jonathan Punt


Advent is a season full of beloved symbols. There are the calendars—designed creatively to build maximum anticipation. Today these can take the form of everything from your classic felt calendars to more innovative designs centered around bacon or dad jokes. There are, of course, the candles that move from purple, a color of repentance and waiting to pink, the color of rejoicing. Churches and homes are filled with various forms of indoor evergreenery meant to symbolize the constancy of God’s faithfulness. My personal favorite though, has to be the Nativity Scene. A Willow Tree Nativity Scene was the first Christmas present I got for Amelia after we were married, and it remains my favorite piece of advent decor to set up every year. 


Nativity scenes are special in their own right. How often are adults allowed to collect and display what are essentially play dolls as the beauty of the Christmas story allows them to do? The history of the Nativity scene makes an even stronger contender for the top symbol of advent. The Nativity scene was made popular by St. Francis of Assisi back in the early 13th century. As an older man failing in health, St. Francis approached one of his last Christmas seasons by brainstorming ways to make the Christmas story more accessible and more alive to the common church-goer of his day. It didn’t take him long to realize that surely nothing could make Christmas feel more alive than a living Nativity scene. With real animals, hay, and a manger, St. Francis invited parishioners into the shocking humility that characterized the conditions of our Savior's birth. St. Francis’ Nativity scene proved to be such an effective medium to communicate the Christmas story that Franciscan communities quickly spread the practice. Eventually “static crèche” scenes (small figurines) were created to bring the Nativity experience into homes—a tradition which became universal in the church by the late middle ages and continues today in millions of homes including ours. 

As one of the last major gifts he offered the church, St. Francis’ living Nativity was a fitting capstone to his life of ministry. His entire life of ministry had prepared him for this moment—shaped by humility, poverty, and service to the vulnerable. To see why Francis’s nativity mattered—and why it still deepens our own understanding of the Christmas story—it helps to look briefly at his life. 


St. Francis was born into a family of wealthy cloth merchants in Assisi, Italy. He grew up as a wealthy socialite, well-familiar with extravagance and the finer things of life. His life began to change after he went to war, was captured and imprisoned. This new-found experience of suffering opened his eyes to the suffering many in his community experienced in their ordinary lives. A climactic moment occurred when St. Francis met a man suffering from leprosy and was moved with such compassion, he embraced him. St. Francis soon recognized that God was calling him to renounce his wealth and devote his life to service of the poor and marginalized. In fact, the story goes that one day Francis’ father was so fed up with all of the money and clothes Francis had been giving to rebuild churches and care for the poor that he dragged Francis in front of the bishop and demanded repayment. In response, Francis gave his father back all his money and even the clothes off his back, signifying his complete renunciation of his family's wealth. This iconic scene is depicted in countless paintings with St. Francis standing naked and declaring to his father and the bishop, “From now on I will say, ‘Our Father who art in heaven,’ not ‘my father Pietro.” 


Throughout his life, St. Francis lived up to this promise. He intentionally identified and associated with social outcasts, embedding himself in leper colonies for much of his life. He preached sermons for the common person in the language of the people. He refused to own property personally or corporately through his movement, instead directing donations to meeting practical needs of the poor and rebuilding forgotten abandoned chapels in rural areas. Perhaps most notably of all, he founded the Order of the Friars Minor who distinguished themselves from other mendicant groups by rejecting the life of the Monastery and instead choosing to live amongst ordinary people. This community still exists throughout the world today operating shelters, soup kitchens, and continuing to emphasize the incarnational duty of the church to make itself present in the lives of those who are suffering. 


The message of St. Francis and his order was a much needed wake up call to the 13th century church. At the time, many of the church's practices made God seem inaccessibly transcendent, distant, and disconnected from the common people. The church was the wealthiest institution in Europe, save the monarchy in a few countries. In the class conflicts that broiled during this era, the church most often took the side of the nobles and elites. This is likely because a leadership position in the church was often acquired simply by buying the office. Church liturgy was done in Latin, a language most parishioners couldn’t understand. And even if the homilies could be understood, the concepts were often too lofty and academic to touch ordinary lives of the parishioners. In short, the church at this time was losing the battle against a constant temptation that has plagued the people of God—to ally with the world and its wealth, power, and prestige, rather than to ally with the incarnate God who embodied a gospel of humility, vulnerability, and self-sacrifice. 


As you set up your nativity this year and as you admire the various scenes displayed in other households, remember the long history of the practice. Let it remind you that Jesus’ entrance into the world represented a bold and shocking message. When God came to earth, he did not identify with the elite and influential of his day, but with the humble, the poor and the penitent. With his living Nativity, St. Francis demonstrated to the church that Christ did not come to save the healthy, but the sick. He invited his parishioners to rededicate their lives to the incarnate Savior born in a humble manger. That same invitation is available to us today.



Written by Pierce Finley


“For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” Matthew 6:21


Heart behind generosity:


As I’ve continued to walk with Jesus, it has become clear how important a life of generosity is. It is far more than fulfilling an obligation - it is joining with God in one of his core characteristics. Our God is an abundantly generous God, and he invites us to live like him in our own acts of generosity. Giving our money, time, and attention to those in need is a great honor because it is a chief way for us to bear God’s image to the world around us. It is rooted in a deep trust that God will provide for us, as Jesus describes so well in the Sermon on the Mount. He provides for all of his creation (look at the flowers and the birds), and he will provide for us too. We don’t need to guard our possessions and build up a wall of wealth to protect ourselves. I think many Christians understand this heart for generosity, which is rooted in our Savior’s generosity, but I also think many of us (myself included) lack a vision for how expansive our generosity can be. We often hide behind the words “wisdom” and “stewardship” (which by themselves are great things to practice,) only to follow the cultural norms of amassing wealth, placing our security in our money instead of the one who gives it to us. I am mostly writing this to myself, as I have to repent of the idolatry of wealth and its perceived security with great frequency. If any of you can relate, here are a few practices that I have found help take money off the throne in my heart.


Practices of generosity:


Tithing is one simple practice that our brothers and sisters have practiced throughout the history of the church across many cultural lines. Put simply, this is the practice of giving 10% of your income to the local church. There is nothing magical about 10%, but there is something deeply valuable in just starting somewhere - so why not align that starting point with the historical and global church? If you aren’t giving at least 10% of your income away to the advancement of God’s kingdom locally and abroad, I would highly encourage you to set that goal. If you feel like you can’t, then I recommend two steps:

  1. Genuinely reflect on why not. I know that there are many valid hesitations here, but it is important to reflect and make sure your reasons truly are rooted in godly wisdom and not fear, selfishness, or abiding by our worldly cultural standards. Consider reaching out to a trusted brother or sister to discuss what your barriers are.

  2. After reflection, if you still find that 10% is too high right now, set a different goal. As I said, 10% is not a magical number, but having a specific goal to grow in generosity will work wonders. Once you hit that goal, increase it again! 10% is just a way to get started, not the final destination.


Some of you may have a different response to tithing. Maybe you already give 10%, and maybe you even find it easy. If you’re like me, you also have automatic withdrawals set up to give without even thinking about it - and that severely limits the opportunity for generosity to transform our hearts! For many people, giving 10% does not actually impact their livelihood at all, so a great next step is setting a personal “finish line” (even if giving 10% is hard right now, this is a good practice to start now). Setting a finish line means seriously considering how much money you/your family needs right now, and giving away everything beyond that. You can look at using a median family income as a starting point, or even consider what it would look like to limit your spending to the poverty line. If that sounds extreme, then good! In full transparency, our current finish line is not the poverty line - but it is worth considering what that would look like for your life. Setting a finish line is meant to do a few things:

  1. Increase solidarity with the poor - by intentionally limiting how much money we can spend/save for ourselves, we will have to make sacrifices in our lifestyle that many people around the world are already forced to make due to lack of resources.

  2. Combat lifestyle creep if income increases - you’ve already set a finish line to determine what you need, and any income increase means we get to give more away!

  3. Limit the impact of consumerism, materialism, and wealth accumulation on our souls. This should combat both current spending and lavish saving that our society pushes so heavily. Evaluate how much you actually need to save for things like retirement, considering that some giving needs could be better met now rather than once you have amassed “enough” to feel secure in your giving (I personally wrestle a lot with what Luke 12:16-21 has to teach about the American model of retirement savings).


There is no “right” finish line, and it is very likely to change with life circumstances. The important thing is to combat our cultural norm that every dollar we make is for us - or the similar lie that 10% is for God, and everything else is for us. It is all a gift from God, and as 2 Corinthians 9:8-11 teaches, he gives us abundance so that we can abound all the more in giving! And finally, as you create more opportunities to give, remember that giving most powerfully transforms us and others when it is personal rather than transactional. Seek to actually connect with those you are supporting, learn their stories, and share some life together.


Next steps:


There is a lot more to consider here than what can fit in a succinct blog post (although this one really isn’t succinct). As such, I want to encourage a few next steps to better reflect and pursue generosity as a community of God’s children:

  1. Pursue more financial transparency with a couple of trusted brothers/sisters. Talk through what is a good finish line, how well you are keeping to your goals, how you decide where to give and when, etc. Satan has done a great job in our culture of making the topic of money taboo, and it is a lot harder to grow without communal support and accountability! Important caveat - everyone involved has to be in sync that this is purely to help encourage each other, and not to impress each other with acts of generosity. Equally dangerous is the trap of giving to impress men rather than glorify God.

  2. For those who have never thought with intentionality about your finances, we encourage you to join an 8 week group study that is designed to equip you to think more deeply about your finances and God's promises and create a financial plan.

  3. Consider attending a Journey of Generosity (JOG) mini-retreat. This is a time set aside to do what we are often told not to do - talk about money and how to grow in generosity, and it is in a shame-free atmosphere. There are no asks for money at a JOG, but there are a lot of great stories about how other brothers and sisters have tried to grow in the discipline of generosity. The stories are great ways to expand our vision for what generosity can look like, and then discuss practical applications with other believers. If you would consider attending one, please reach out to myself or the church staff. I enjoy hosting them, and there are several other opportunities to attend in the Triangle area if you’d like another option.


If you would like to learn more about the 8-week study, the JOG mini-retreat, or if you don’t have anyone you feel is in a similar place to pursue accountability with, please reach out to a staff member and we will help connect you. 

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